I've noticed a tone to coming's out.
In a nutshell it boils down to:
HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME!
Yes, this situation was created entirely to cause you stress and to make your life more complicated.
Related. If the person you are attempting to help shies away or reacts with fear from previous "assistance"; you are NOT helping. You get a point for trying but you lose three for fucking it up. It's like replying to "I'm drowning!" with "I got your car to start!"
In a nutshell it boils down to:
HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME!
Yes, this situation was created entirely to cause you stress and to make your life more complicated.
Related. If the person you are attempting to help shies away or reacts with fear from previous "assistance"; you are NOT helping. You get a point for trying but you lose three for fucking it up. It's like replying to "I'm drowning!" with "I got your car to start!"