There comes a time in every adult's life when they accept responsibility for their own actions and life.
To do so means to leave the child behind and be a full member of society.
While some things are the fault of others, a constant and endless stream of things that "aren't your fault" means that it probably is your fault.
Own up to it.
Your problems are yours to solve, not someone else's. Others may help if they wish, but they don't owe you that assistance. You don't get to be butt hurt that they may refuse to give you any assistance with your problems should they chose to withhold their help.
To do so means to leave the child behind and be a full member of society.
While some things are the fault of others, a constant and endless stream of things that "aren't your fault" means that it probably is your fault.
Own up to it.
Your problems are yours to solve, not someone else's. Others may help if they wish, but they don't owe you that assistance. You don't get to be butt hurt that they may refuse to give you any assistance with your problems should they chose to withhold their help.
